Did you ever notice that people don't get the your story when you tell it or trying to play it down?
Yes. And people generally don't care!
A's are so common today it's hard to find a married person who either hasn't had one or doesn't have a friend who's had one.
I blame the 'fast food' culture - instant gratification on everything. I also blame the West's attitude to laziness - nobody wants to work for anything these days - including a M - it's easier just to move on to the next bit of excitement.
There are few people left who see the important in a good healthy M.
Sorry, hijacked the thread and ranted a little
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"