As long as horse face is still feeding and taking oxygen from the barn, there will be no relationship. And, how weird is it that she's wearing our wedding band? I bet OM loves that.
T, cracked me up ... horse face LOL ...
Wedding band wearing ... very strange. The impression I get is that your XW wears the trousers in her R with OM so he can like or lump it I'd imagine.
I again feel myself completely agreeing with Cutter.
You can't respond to the first part - she's baiting you.
Kids - you have a schedule. She can't break it, that's actually why it's there so everybody knows where they stand. She told the kids so that she could blame you when you enforce the schedule you both agreed to - she's doing something wrong, hurt daddy by getting the kids mad at him. If you don't enforce this schedule then there will be a next time and a next time.
Third part about amicable relationship. That includes respect and trust. See second part if you want to know how much respect she has for you. When you are finished there, see the previous post you made about her turning up in your driveway with OM. She has zero respect for you. Respect has to be earned. Start by enforcing the schedule.
Just my 2p worth. I have a D and I know about schedules. They are flexible within reason. That goes both ways.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
