Just found this over in Newcomers - it's kind of apt to my above post:

"When things aren't going well, we spend far too much time over analyzing & finding fault instead of finding creative solutions" --MWD

Not sure what creative solutions I can find exactly!

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"