You're right, this site is about your marriage. That's what you should be posting about. But what we read and hear is a lot of "if I do this, we'll inch closer to getting back together, but if I do that, we'll be closer to divorcing." It's your thought process and motivation we're trying to get you to recognize. Because unless you're different than 98% of the rest of the world, that's how you're going to talk and interact with her.
And she'll see right through it.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
