Kevin..I really hope you continue to go to AA. If the drinking has been a real problem it will creep back again if you don't constantly stay on top of it.
I do agree with the others. Let her go. Get along with her and be civil. I need to do the same thing. Not jump at a crumb and think its some sort of sign.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!