I am trying to break some molds and move forward. I am not going back to AA. I have plenty of other things going on that don't require me to go to or need AA.

There is a difference between being codependent and knowing what is morally right to do which is to stand by the M even if it is down the toilet right now.

Yes, I know what caused me to drink. I wasn't willing to deal with the problems I had or believed I had in life and instead tried to wash them away with the bottle. I am taking those problems head on now and just dealing with them as they are. I am also trying to make forward progress in not being so stuck on myself and my situation that I can help others and do things for others.

VD, yes, I am aware of the fact that you can't get the actual certification until you have something to the affect of 5 years experience. And I also am thinking back and forth between BA and PMP. However, I can go through the certification courses and show the completed course work to help improve the current track that I am on. Not everyone that is a BA or project manager has the certification. A lot of them fell into it. I have some experience as a BA. The big one would have been had I taken the job I passed onto my W. Ok, huge mistake there on my part for not going after it and instead passing it along so I could be cozy with where things were. That won't ever happen again. I learned that lesson extremely well.

I know of plenty of cases where people are getting better jobs just for completing the course work and getting the certificate of completion. So unless I am wrong, it does still actually help to go through it and do it.

Is this what you see since you are a recruiter?

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...