It is stopping me from moving on to find someone else. My goal isn't to move on and find someone else.
That should not be your goal.
You'll be stuck right where you are, unless you move on. You W also knows you are stuck here, by her actions and how she communicates with you. That much is apparent.
Your goal should be refined to be:
"My goal isn't to move on and find someone else, it is to move on and find MYSELF."
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."