Thanks you guys. I really did not want to pretend to be dating but decided to listen to the advice that 99% people and my DB coach said (be mysterious, look good, make him wonder.)

I got a plain text checking on our son this morning--not the friendly ones he has been sending lately.

We'll see how tonight goes. I'm nervous he'll bring up D.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004