I can't remember if i said Happy Birthday to you or not... But Happy Birthday and Im sorry if I hadn't said it before on fb.

It seems that your exw continually tries to rope you into an argument with her, so she can in some way use it against you in the future. Her hang up still seems to be to make you out to be the one with the issues at the same time justifying her actions as responsible ones ~ even though she is the one who has had the affair and continues to be unreasonable beyond belief when it comes to the boys.

I won't tell you that your answer to her was wrong, because its exactly what i would have written. In a perfect world what DDay is saying is nice.. but we are dealing with emotions and certainly this is not the first time your ex has made accusations that aren't true. It fustrating and downright BS when this happens with her time and time again. Playing the role of making nice doesn't work with her.

Hang in there my friend.


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.