Folks, this may sound like fun, but it isn't. This isn't a revenge ploy and its not an easy thing to do. I'm intentionally going all out to push her buttons -- but ALWAYS with the intention of shocking her back to reality. There will be pain for which I'll have to make amends for in the future.
So are you going to try your own secret technique without getting input?
"Discretion is the better part of valor."
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.