I am not blaming ow for where he is. I pointed out that she set rules and firmly put her foot down with him and listed what he cannot do as per her and he is abiding by her rules because he chose to stay there.
I did not blame ow for his car troubles or for his misery.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19