OMW met me last night and we had a couple pops together. Let me preface all this nothing will happen. So, she looked fantastic and was fun and easy to talk to. I wish she wasn't OMW. OM blew it because it sounds like she really took care of him and she was the glue to that family.OM told her about the stuff this week. He thinks I'm crazy which is exactly what I want him to think.
While we were talking I rec'd the strangest email from XW.it is so arrogant and selfish, its amazing. I haven't even replied cause the selfishness in it just oozes.
She said my kids were embarrassed by my actions this week and that I need to focus on controlling my behavior.
Second part is her trying to figure out our parenting plan as she scheduled a vacation with the kids on one of my weekends and she needs to figure it all out, and that if she doesn't get the weekend she will let the kids know I put a kabosh on it. She's already discussed her plans with the kids, but its not even her weekend. Ok, my fault again?
Last part is she wants an amicable relationship and wants to know when I'm ready for that. And, that she's not wearing a ring on her ring finger, she's wearing a wedding band from the ring I gave her on her right hand (info got back to her from OMW to OM). Ok a couple comments on that. As long as horse face is still feeding and taking oxygen from the barn, there will be no relationship. And, how weird is it that she's wearing our wedding band? I bet OM loves that.
I don't really even know how to answer her. Her logic or lack of it, continues to blame me for everything and cannot see that her bizarre ridiculous choices create these chain of events. I'm just honestly continuously dumfounded on how she thinks. Its getting worse and worse.
One other strange thing OMW and me talked about. I don't do facebook but I was checking xw page to see if we had any mutual friends on there. Hardly any. But what I noticed was her broadcasting that she was 'single'. Not a big deal. But I checked some other friends pages and nobody shows their status. So I looked at OM page. 'Status: married. Interests: women'. Now, if you're in a relationship, do you tell everyone you're single? And, if your having an affair and everyone knows it, do you put 'married and interested in women'? Its just weird. I wouldn't show anyone anything. My initial hunch was that OM and XW were having a little battle between them with this.
Anyway, I need to craft a response to her ridiculous email this morning. Right now its not going to be politically correct.
