Oh and he deleted all of the text messages between them - stating that it would make me mad if I knew they were texting.
Ravenly,
I feel for you. We've all been there. Just remember the feelings you are having will end.
Two things I would suggest:
1. You need to control yourself. I don't mean this so that poor old H won't get upset. I mean it so that you can stay focused and IN CONTROL (one of the most important things you can do). Cool, calm, collected an confident as Gnosis says.
2. Decide what do you want? I mean what you exactly want and break it down - you want the M, okay, how do you get to feel safe and secure again? You want the texting to stop? Okay, how do you feel secure it has ...
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
