Kev: Yeah it was a good night. Find the good things that we do have.
BND: Gotta get those papers. The first 10 months were fine and he was on time with the payments. In June he wanted to skip so he could buy his d15 a 8th grade grad present! Since then, they have been later and later and with more excuses. I think he sucked it up for awhile as he thought eventually he would get time with baby and it would be lowered. I have her 24/7 so its quite high. Well, since I put the kabosh on that he isn't real willing to pay that amount.
He started texting pretty late last night and some things that were not real clear so I imagine he may have been drinking. Makes me really sad when I see that. Just from that, things can't change between us. When he has a bad day or things get hard he drinks to numb himself. I know last night was supposed to be his night with his girls and his D15 said her mom was picking her up so she wasn't with him last night either. That bugs him as well. He is supposed to have them 3 nights a week. Lucky to have them 1 or 2 now...and that is just the younger one. The oldest d15 avoids it at all costs.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Makes me really sad when I see that. Just from that, things can't change between us. When he has a bad day or things get hard he drinks to numb himself. I know last night was supposed to be his night with his girls and his D15 said her mom was picking her up so she wasn't with him last night either. That bugs him as well. He is supposed to have them 3 nights a week. Lucky to have them 1 or 2 now...and that is just the younger one. The oldest d15 avoids it at all costs.
