Focus on you! Start going out and doing things for yourself. Ask W if there is something you could get for her and for D for Christmas. If she says no, respect that...but ask to see them for the holiday, at least for dinner or something. All she can say is no. Don't whine or pout if she does, just respect her wishes. Right now, you have to be patient and wait her out it seems...but she hasn't gotten the D...so she's still on the fence. Let her climb off of her own free will.
