Bill beat me to some of my ideas. We like to feed each other ice cream although some how it has become my job to feed it to him. (that's ok) We have a good game (It's not cheesy) called "Speak Love Make Love) that I got from Ambiance. Read something to each other like Charles Dickens for the holidays. Give each other foot massages Make it a game. Have each of you write down an idea of something you would like for the other to do that night/within the next week/within the next month. Surprise each other with when you do it. (I WANT to do this!) Give him chocolate or make him brownies or something that he really likes. cook him his fav. dinner. wash his car, etc. buy him a cd Ya know, I wonder if there are some websites out there with ideas, so we don't have to buy a whole book to get a few good ones out of it. I would look, but i'm working. (can't ya tell?)
Happy Thanksgiving everyone. Hope you all had a great meal, gave thanks, and spent time with someone you love...and that includes spending time alone...cause then you're with yourself and You should all love yourselves! God Bless.
Some cool ideas from you wonderful DB folks..thanks! I did have son take a pic of me all dressed up on Thanksgiving and emailed it to H...he didn't comment at first...then when he called tonight I said "I heard you got a pic of some really hot chick in an email.." He laughed and said, "Yeah, I turned it into wallpaper on my computer at work." So....he did like the picture... Oh, and I'm on yahoo now...dragonflymanorlady Chatting today with Pam, Opt, and Bob was fun!
Focus on you! Start going out and doing things for yourself. Ask W if there is something you could get for her and for D for Christmas. If she says no, respect that...but ask to see them for the holiday, at least for dinner or something. All she can say is no. Don't whine or pout if she does, just respect her wishes. Right now, you have to be patient and wait her out it seems...but she hasn't gotten the D...so she's still on the fence. Let her climb off of her own free will.
