I think I answered in a similar thread, perhaps also started by you Pheline, but yes, sometimes like in my case the D actually happening clenses the souls of those involved and finaly brings closure to the years of summounted problems.

Now D is to the extreme, since you're not, stall it. Spend some time living seperated and give yourselves time to work on your individual issues and become attractive to each other again and in turn, miss each other. wink

And as K4D said, in my case, although we are just getting started on a new path together, the love we had for each other even through the thick and thin of D never ceased (seemed like it did at the time) and is now even stronger than it's ever been and just gets better with each passing day. I can't wait to live with my XW and kids again now that we all know what it's like to miss each other so much.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11