wording things is going to be the challenge and quite frankly i just have no energy to stay up after d2 goes to bed.
i am almost tempted to just say we are to busy and made plans for my vacation, it will have to be after the first of the year.
i know i should probably give him the change to prove himself, and start really small. i may say something to the effect of:
that's great you want to step up and start providing money for your legal obligations, however when you just offer money 1 time i feel that you are trying to buy off me and daughter. one time providing money in a matter of a few months is not owning up to your responsibilities. when you demonstrate consistent committment to providing for this family and prove you can be trusted things will have to work in this manner.
you will need to submitted your projected supervised visitation schedule. provide your employeer address, purchase 2 approved non recalled non garage sale car hand me down trash picking seats for both children, prove over time consistently that you are financially responsible for these children,
i'm not done but have to get ready for work...
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline