Bill beat me to some of my ideas. We like to feed each other ice cream although some how it has become my job to feed it to him. (that's ok) We have a good game (It's not cheesy) called "Speak Love Make Love) that I got from Ambiance. Read something to each other like Charles Dickens for the holidays. Give each other foot massages Make it a game. Have each of you write down an idea of something you would like for the other to do that night/within the next week/within the next month. Surprise each other with when you do it. (I WANT to do this!) Give him chocolate or make him brownies or something that he really likes. cook him his fav. dinner. wash his car, etc. buy him a cd Ya know, I wonder if there are some websites out there with ideas, so we don't have to buy a whole book to get a few good ones out of it. I would look, but i'm working. (can't ya tell?)