I agree, the driving force most definately has to be the skank. I've never known him to be so selfish, heartless, and untruthful. I know an MLCer has a tendancy to be this way, but he is really awful. She keeps him going with "baby, baby, baby, baby do this, baby do that, ah baby pleeez". I keep thinking one of these days somethings gonna happen to make him realize and see her for what she really is.Right now though she is pushing hard to get her married man to D his wife. Then she can have it all. My H, my house, my life.
Speaking of house.....
I came home early from school today because I was sick. Just as I was getting comfy on the sofa under a cushy blanket, I heard the garage door opening. He walked in, went to his bedroom, and then started some laundry. As I was wondering why he came home so early, the doorbell rang. He answered it, and told the lady to come in. It was a realtor he asked to check out the house. He said " MJ this is Realtor. I said I wasn't expecting anyone as I came home sick from school today, and it would have been nice if I would have known." He took her back outside, and I went in my bedroom. He was outside for a while. He also must have been talking to the neighbor across the street. That neighbor moved his skank in. He had been married to his wife for 35 years when he found his skank. She promptly left, went to another state where their kids are, and D him. He use to complain all the time how she took him in court, wanting us to feel sorry for him. My H must have thought it was a great idea he had, so he decided to do it also. The guy across the street must also be giving him pointers on how not to let your wife get you in court. I then decided to go to church even if I was sick. I rather be in church sick, than to be at home sick in the same house with him. When I got home, he was sitting in the livingroom watching television. I made a grilled cheese sand and some hot tea w/honey, took it to my bedroom and shut the door behind me. Funny how sometimes detaching comes so easily!
A friend at church told me not to be shattered by what happened today. I said I can't believe how I've not cracked from all this. She raised her hands in church, and said "THIS is why!"