how to 180 when you've been too independent?

[Ready2Change]

I might be a bit to later on this, but may help in the future.

I too was very independent. Lost connection. I learned a lot about body language. It works. I tested it. practice it.

Soo, do not sit "chess style" at the table. Get a round one and sit "Next to him".

When you look at him, study what you like about his face. Study his eyes and lips. Imagine kissing him. Think positive the whole time. Smile (not the face one, but the real one that comes from your positive thoughts).