My new thread. The other one was getting a bit lenthy I guess.

Tonight I got a text from W asking if I was on my way to the karate thing. I replied yes. I got there and she texted me where she was. I did not ask. She just sent it to me. So I get inside and I see her and D7 sitting on the bleachers and them waiving to me to come over. So I did go sit by them. D7 sat between us again. From that point on W really didn't speak to me or look at me the rest of the evening.

D12 performed and got her gold belt. She did wonderful as did the rest of the kids in her class. I was very proud of her and told her.

We ended up leaving and going our separate ways. I hugged my girls good night and told them I love them and then told W to have a good evening as she was walking the other way. She said the same back and we parted ways. I am not sure why she wanted me to sit with them since she had nothing to say to me. But I played it cool. No biggie. It was D12's night and she did great.

SM,

D12 decided she wanted to do karate all on her own. It actually stunned me when she told me she signed up. I had no influence in that decision. She just likes it. And hey, it is a healthy thing anyways. They teach the kids discipline and self control. I think it is all good.

So tonight W calls me and needs to know what D7's homework is because apparently she left her homework sheet here. So I tell her what it is. Then W tells me that we need to work with D12 on communicating better to us about her homework because apparently she had a research paper she needed to do on the internet and didn't let either of us know. I agreed. Good enough. We both said good night.

I excercised tonight and I feel great. I have to start doing it again every day. It just really perks me up when I do.

ClingingToHope,

I don't actually see W that often. It has just been here lately with the birthday and holidays and kids events going on. Usually I don't see her except maybe 5 minutes a week when we exchange the kids.

KerryK, SG and everyone else, I am not going to go out and seek sex from someone. It would be what, an hour of fun and do nothing morally for me and my marriage.

Can't bring myself to do that one. Thanks for thinking of me though.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...