Slow and easy I guess! Think I probably need to move to piecing before too long. Went to dinner with XW tonight and went to one store to watch her shop(rode with her in her new car the few hundred feet there). X is getting her gall bladder removed Friday.
Seems I could write a bunch but will just try to be quick. X asked when I would know about that house I put a bid on. Said Xmas eve and told a lil about my buying agents. Asked something about being excited to get it or not, I said at this point waiting and having another offer (somebody came in behind my and made cash offer for less, but is up to bank to decide, its a short sale), it doesnt matter if I get it. Later on X was starting to tear up and said "what if things work out between us, then what about that house?" I replied, "could rent it out like my other house", she smiled and said "guess I worry too much" so I changed subjects so she wouldnt get all emotional.
X brought up how should wants to start going back to church with the kids and would like me to join them. She mentioned something about doing stuff with the kids with me and I told her that is a BIG step, and she agreed and said little steps is what we need right now. She wants to get into a church she (well all of us) have been to before. Told me that she wants to do some classes. I had a feeling where X was going so I was like, o ya, what kind of classes? Said "bible class and they also have classes for families that might reunite one day, families that have had a divorce". I was like, hmmm, I see. I told her how the kids were Sheperds last Xmas and that was news to her. Said she wants to get into a church and do stuff like that.
Sooooo, guess all my hard work paid off a long time ago doing the things I needed to do. Was getting out of her car, and she said "give me a hug", no hesitation there! Call me X said. Texted a lil after that and X once again thanked me for dinner. She keeps trying to pay for dinner but I wont allow it! Oh, X did ask me if I knew this one gal at work. The name sounded familiar, and then it donned on me. X thought my 401k money would be there and has been dealing with my HR. HR is downtown about ten miles from the plant I work at so I dont deal with them on a daily basis. X needs to pay sales tax on cars and get plates on it, but was banking on that she said. Was no biggie tho.
X said a couple of times about vacuuming for her while she is down recovery this weekend. If I am right, that is to get me in her house to hang out prob, which I might do this weekend. Wanna be there for her and dont know what I can do for her. Her Mom and Dad pretty much got her covered (can I say her at least one more time)? Might step it up and get a lil something, maybe a flower or two and deliver it myself.
All and all, its all good.
that class had a name, and she said it, think its called "2nd Time Around", its for people that have been remarried! X has been doing some research!!! She hasnt begging me either! But did bring up this female friend of mine again and I assured her again that just friends and thats all it has every been.
