Ya I had a talk with D8 tonight befor this and i told her she needs to have mommy talk and explain thinigs to her why she did what she did.. And I told D8 how to talk nicely ask for honest truithful answers.. and to tell mommy you want the truth. I kept stressing D8 to be nice when asking and don't get snotty if mommy lies just tell her you are old enough to hear the truth