Thanks for the advice Dane & Mind. I called H to speak to the kids. He answered but didn't say anything about the missed calls. I didn't bring it up either. He told me about S6 bball game schedule and then handed the phone off to the kids.

This Friday the kids have a Christmas party at a friends house including a visit from Santa. Both H and I plan to be there. I have tried to go completely dark with H lately and have not had any contact with him outside issues that involve the kids. What do you suggest that I do at this party? I plan on at least acknowledging his presence and initially saying hello, but other than that I don't plan on engaging in any conversation with him. Is this the right approach? Or should I act as if and strike up a conversation with him?


Me & H: 33 yrs
S: 4 & 6
D: 2
M: 9 yrs
ILYBNILWY: 8/09
SEPARATED: 9/09
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