I don't know much about the circumstances of her individual therapy. In the couples therapy, she ended it because she found it too stressful.
Changing my life? Like finding a new partner? I don't think I'd need PM for that. Again, we're into this territory where the assumption seems to be that IF ONLY I change my life in just the right fine-tuned and perfect way, it will turn her around. Given what we've been through, I doubt it.