my reasoning behind not responding feels like playing into his thought of walking all over me. like great one time out of 2 months you want to give me money and set up a real time to see d2, but no schedule of visitation, no schedule of paying support for each month, none of the other respect or support that i thought i mentioned in msg.
my first thought was to respond friday afternoon with we have plans. and leave it at that.
he's the type of guy that will go seeing her this friday and then not for another 2 weeks. i don't think that is god for d2. he also needs to work on building trust. so that's why i feel i should not just hand over the first thing he asks for when he first asks for it, he needs to do some actions first. right?
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
