and yet he called again. this time the msg was:

I know you and don't get along, i want to see d2 on friday, can we meet up, i 'll give you some money and i want to buy d2 some presents.

i don't think he knows exactly what my msg was saying.

i was thinking here i should be spelling them out clearly to him to try to get him to be succussful?

you say i should not answer his msg? and be dark for a few days?

my niece says he thinks now he can buy off daughter, and that since i have responded to him he thinks he can just walk all over me again.

tell me what should i do. respond with clear things that i put in my msg or just be dark?

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline