i believe my h has been mlc for over 3 years...only to move out 4 months ago.
it is so hard. thats all i can say right now...
Gnosis and girls...\
my h just called our 8 y/o back... i took the phone in to see id she was asleep yet, gave it to her and she couldnt remember why she had called...
the heartbreaker...she said, daddy can you come home...because i want you to...
i let them finish...walked out onto our back deck and threw up...several times...
our daughters think h works nights now too...he has done this in the past so its not so out of place for them.
i can hear him now...we need to do something tell them something...
we are in the process of finding a family councellor...for other issues...8 y/o is severe adhd and is having trouble in school. dont want to put any more on their plates until we are sure as to what is going to happen...IF we ever do...
please keep in touch...when you are able this board is my only outley right now!!!
Last edited by lost1234; 12/17/0902:36 AM.
me 39 h 38 kids 9 and 6 h left 8/9/09 loving and devoted wife and mother still going...10 months later...