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tomato!!! I just read your thread! Way to go!!! How's it going? All good with you both in one place? MERRY CHRISTMAS!!! And, thanks for stopping by!


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Kara...

Haha Actually, I took them back this evening. They were DARLING, BUT they kind of broke up my leg line, and made me look dumpy! I exchanged them for the chocolate brown (need the hat, now, Britt!!). I have three really nice pairs of brown sweater leggings, skinn(ier) jeans, and cords that I can wear them with, and I look better w/a uniform color, rather than the color block. Ya know what I'm sayin'? LOL

How are you doing? I need to get the latest!!!


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Yo ST, Handful checking in here... GOSH! LOL

MILF! LOL Haven't heard that term since D18's crew was here constantly! (I miss those boys... great confidence builders!)

I am the planner. No question about that...

H wants to get the xmas shopping (for the kids) done, as he travels during the work week. I'll dress the MILF part, and be fun. Do something different? (WONDER WHAT COACH WILL RECOMMEND? ~~~~ SCARED ~~~~~)

It's a bummer to hear about the remote start not being what I imagined, NOT that I can use one anyhow! Whaaaaaa!

How are you doing w/holiday festivities? Are you staying in OK? Are you back from TX yet? I bet it was warm there!!!


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Coach.

Remember, I have a heart condition. LOL

It's getting fixed on the 28th, in case we need to delay the PLAN. If not, spill the beans!!!

Can't wait for the joke!


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Originally Posted By: mindfull
Coach.

Remember, I have a heart condition. LOL

It's getting fixed on the 28th, in case we need to delay the PLAN. If not, spill the beans!!!

Can't wait for the joke!



Two brothers , 6 & 8, decide one night that the next day they will cuss all day long no matter where and when. So they roll down to breakfast and their Mom asks them what they would like for breakfast. The older answers, "I take some of the g-d d*mn mother f-in cornflakes." The mom hops up and slaps him into next week and tans his bottom. She reels around and asks the younger one, "Well what do you want?" He is sitting there wide -eyed and replies, "Anything but those mother f-in cornflakes."

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Hahahahhaha LOL!! That's cute!


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well, not warm enough that's for sure!! wink yep, I'm back in OK, and we'll be driving up to Wichita xmas eve and staying for a week, so that will be fun, lots of people to visit there.

and since your the planning type (it's funny, one of my mv friends said that's her little safe place..to plan plan and more planning, but it's action that will give us results, not the planning). So, not that you need to take action, but I think you should tell H, He's got the wheel tonight!

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Mindfull

You are doing so well! All the best for a blessed Christmas and a successful procedure.

As for the chocolate brown, I always say that you can never go wrong with chocolate brown. Hey that rhymes...kinda!

I'll give you a quick update on me here since you asked. My H announced that he was going away for Christmas and would be back in the New Year. He didn't say where he was going and I didn't ask. I have made myself ill over the past few weeks by choosing to react and obsess over his behavior. I actually had to get medication for anxiety but am feeling much better now. I am at the point where if purely for no other reason than my health I have to LET GO AND LET GOD. It is simply an unhealthy state of affairs for me.

So, the time apart may actually be a blessing in disguise for me as it will give me time to calm down and focus on getting myelf healthy and making plans for the New Year. I have had some reactions that I did not like and seen a side of myself I do not like during all this drama. So, I will focus on changing those things I can and leave the stuff I can't for God's direction.

I also have lots of plans with family and friends who are determined to keep me busy and maybe that is what I need.

Don't wanta put a damper on all the UGG talk. After all, it is Christmas...lets all go and buy some more shoes !!!


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Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!
So, not that you need to take action, but I think you should tell H, He's got the wheel tonight!


Oh, great! Can't wait for Old Country Buffet! LOL LOL LOL


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I have so much work to do today. ONE MORE ORDER COMING IN TO MAKE QUOTA!! And, I just got the call from their purchasing department to finalize shipping/installation details. COME ON ALREADY!!!

My Q1 is shaping up, too!!! (Not sure how when I chitchat w/you folks so much! LOL)

S12 has finals this week. I'm so impressed by him. He plays club soccer (on #10 team in IL) AND school football/basketball (crazy schedule), and yet, he's totally prepared for finals, and only has one class where he's hovering between an A and B. I was never that together!!! But, I was pretty fun! wink

D18 is handling S10 tonight as his soccer 3v3 game is during S12's bball game, and I can't be in both places at once! The bball game is out of town, and the parents have to drive to this one... H MAY make it home today, but I'm not for sure, as the weather is horrendous to his business!

Oh, and D18 is moving to a new apartment w/her BFF that she lives w/now, and their BFF Jack! Just like Three's Company! LOL I adore them both, so I know she will be surrounded by good kids, but they ARE still heathens!

OK, I have to be productive, NOW!




PS - And no one has anything clean to wear!

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Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
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