Dane, Your W didn't wake up one morning and decide "I'll have an EA and throw my whole life as I know it away!" This thing came about after years of feeling invisible/unloved/taken for granted/only The Mom,only His Wife/...empty love buckets. Imagine you go out and have a date now. All of those impressions are validated. Worth noting here that if my H had dated while we were separated, we would have had almost no chance of reconciling. Just saying... Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08