Dane,
Your W didn't wake up one morning and decide "I'll have an EA and throw my whole life as I know it away!" This thing came about after years of feeling invisible/unloved/taken for granted/only The Mom,only His Wife/...empty love buckets. Imagine you go out and have a date now. All of those impressions are validated. Worth noting here that if my H had dated while we were separated, we would have had almost no chance of reconciling. Just saying...
Greek


Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



Happily ever after is one day at a time.