OMW wife called me today. Isnt it interesting how all this meshes together? We talked for a bit. Its great to conspire against those two, and we know they hate it. She needed to talk about the negotiations of her parenting plan, plus a few things about OM. He expects her to do favors for him still, and sometimes she does. But shes getting better at making him be responsible for his actions. Its taken a long time to get there. They were high school sweethearts and I think she's had a very hard time dropping the rope. Not criticizing because I'm the worst DB'er on the history of this board. He sounds so miserable and angry. I could see that in his face today, just a grumpy ol soul. One thing came up that her kids would not go with their father to do something because my XW was there. Her kids despise her. Thus, OM was pretty angry about that. She also said that he calls her very angry, which is what my xw thinks i am ('someday youll be happy'). Its like they are all focused on this 'happiness' mantra. I remember the whole deal with my xw leaving was because 'she just wasnt happy'. They are trying to force it and I bet with these two explode, they will be much much lower on that 'happiness' scale than when they left their spouses.
Well of course OMW and me are a bit unhappy, this aint all sugar plums and lollipops. She's a very nice person, was a dedicated stay at home mom. He blew it.
Could be a rough few days. Safeway had a big sale on beer and I stocked up. Time to get on it.
