Body language is easier for me than the "clever" things to say! I do all right with conversation too. Again, it's being nervy enough to make "clever" sexy comments that freezes me up! But I am not serious about picking someone up so it doesn't matter anyway!
Today I found some sexy fun blouses that look good on my curves! Still extra padding but I have a waist and collar bone again!
BTW Cutter, I know what you mean when you said you built up lady bug's body image and now she is using that to help her with OM (something like that). When I met my H, I could see he was a diamond in the rough when it came to socializing. He could talk to me but would freeze up with others. So I pumped him full of compliments about his wit, funny stories & excellent listening skills. Today he isn't Mr. Charisma but he does talk and interact like anyone else! And he used that new confidence to woo OW.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
