Hi!

Very old timer here.

A Gift=Pressure. Pressure is never good. It may cause an ugly backlash. So, very very very small things may be okay, but do not expect anything in return.

If you can't give him something and receive nothing as from an impoverished friend, don't give anything but a friendly smile, a joyful "Merry Christmas" and a warm hug if he'll take it.

Make this holiday for you, babe.

Take care

J