From reading my thread it might not seem similar, however, the words that your hubby speaks are the EXACT, almost WORD FROM WORD, that my hubby has said to me. we are still in the same house due to the fact that he has no where to go and neither do I (we live a few hundred miles away from friends and family). It is amazing...I can't believe its the EXACT same words (feel trapped, too much pressure). what really stood out is your most recent post when you asked your hubby if he was gonna hang out with your daughters and he blew up thinking you were asking about him coming home. My hubby has recently done the same thing. I don't have any advice as it seems that Gno is giving you great advice but just amazing. just be lucky that you don't have OW involved like I in my stitch.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo