My XH didn't, cuz she'd been tested, she said, and also said she wasn't sleeping with anyone else. Course, he also apparently told her we weren't sleeping together, and she flipped her $h!t when she found out we still were. Heh.
Course, he came back from his deployment with warts...says he must've gotten them and the yeast infection from the towels/bathroom.
Don't know if she ever got the warts, I had one abnormal pap smear, but I've been good since and never developed any growths. Lucky me!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Oh I so love the towel and bathroom excuse!! ROFLMFAO!
You know the thing that kills me is these people watched how their parents were hurt by the same actions they are now committing. And the parents of our respective spouses tell them its okay...whatever makes you happy.
I remember SG used to say that he did not think people were made to be monogamous. We probably weren't, but monogamy is a choice. It is when you love and respect the person you are with that no one would ever be worth hurting that person for a few brief moments of physical pleasure.
Getting down off the soapbox...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Funny (ok not laugh-out-loud, but still) about the towel thing...
Two of my sorority sisters in college shared a room. We all hated the bf of one of the girls, he just seemed to ooze "cheater!" for some reason.
Well, the girl wound up getting crabs. She asked her 'innocent' bf about it...he told her that they probably came from her roommate and she got them b/c they both left their clothes lying on the floor together?? Geez....sad thing is she believed him and asked the other girl if she had crabs...
Ok, while we are on the subject of cheating stories....
My XW's friend discovered condoms in her H's briefcase and confronted him about it. He told her that he would go to a strip club and put one on before going in as when he was watching the strippers he did not want to mess his pants from excitement. She believed him. Another guy and I, upon hearing the story said BS. My XW and her followed him (along with OW's H) and discovered he was having a lunch break affair with his married coworker. Two divorces were the result.
I have a friend whose parents live across the street from each other in separate houses. He does not consider them separated. She has a guy who lives there. Says he cleans the house. Yeah right.
Wow. Right across the street? That's messed up. And I thought my sitch was messed up.
Glad you made it through D-day Jeff!
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
