Ok, while we are on the subject of cheating stories....

My XW's friend discovered condoms in her H's briefcase and confronted him about it. He told her that he would go to a strip club and put one on before going in as when he was watching the strippers he did not want to mess his pants from excitement. She believed him. Another guy and I, upon hearing the story said BS. My XW and her followed him (along with OW's H) and discovered he was having a lunch break affair with his married coworker. Two divorces were the result.