There are a couple things that come into play here. She has full support of her family where she is living, so if she needs to have someone watch my son, they are pretty much at her beck and call. I am in a place where I have no family and only a couple close friends. I realize that I could use a daycare etc., which I would consider, until he is in school...see below.

The school thing - when he is in school there is no way that I would be able to have him for a week and her to have him for a week due to the distance. There is no way that it would work.


Believe me, I do not look at my son as an incovenience.....I KNOW he is a privelege and I look forward to every minute I have him.


Me 44/W 32
S1
M8
Bomb 9/25/09
Separate houses (about 1 hour apart)