Hi Jstar. Now you go dark again. Tell him a few times and days that are good for you, and that you need him to be on time and not flake on them. Then after he answers you, go dark again. And when he comes, look great, smell great, have an excellent attitude.

You demand respect in your boundaries, if he doesnt respect them then enforcing those boundaries will help him develop respect for you. Dont call him names, and be calm and respectful, and document every single exchange the two of you have from here on out.


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...