First Piecing Thread

[pearlharbr]

Good question, what is keeping her from feeling sexy? You mentioned she's PMSing...could it be hormonal? I hate that that sounds sexist, but I just found myself in the same sitch after changing BC methods in the summer. I never experienced PMS before but now I can definitely tie mood swings and overeating to that time of the month. Just one guess.

I think Freckle's idea about taking sex off the table for a while is a good one. I know that before the bomb when BF and I were having problems, a big one was that I felt the same way--that every time he approached me he wanted sex. It totally turned me off and I felt very pressured. If I knew ahead of time that that night we would just be cuddling I would feel a lot safer (we do that occasionally now and we both enjoy it).