hey pirate... if your peers suggest that something seems off kilter...maybe something is off kilter... just a thought doesn't mean it has to be a deluge of angst just something is off
people calling you on it means they are paying attention nobody is your jiminy cricket
we all just are hanging in the same neighborhood
every year my kids get footied pajamas... i figured that at 11 and 12 they would be too old...
not so much
they were plenty upset when their pj boxes weren't under the tree
needless to say...they are now
sometimes it is the small and predictable that make holidays great...pickles in the tree and footied pjs underneath