Not meaning to hijack this thread, but rob how can that even be manageable? I am in a sitch where she lives an hour+ away from me, which is approx 1.5 hours in the opposite direction from where I work. It would be so logistically difficult to get 50/50 custody.

The job I have could be (hoping) the last one I need in my life and is with a good company, so moving closer to where she lives is not really in the realm of possibilities.

Once he is of school age, it gets even worse for a 50/50 split.

Last edited by pitinmygut; 12/16/09 10:39 PM.

Me 44/W 32
S1
M8
Bomb 9/25/09
Separate houses (about 1 hour apart)