I would not push the envelope right now. Just do what you need to do for you and your son. It is amazing to find a new place, and get on your feet. The sense of accomplishment is a huge ego boost.
Don't worry about him for now. Let him do the IC, and you take care of you and your son.
((((Hugs))))
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
