You are thinking of filing because you are hoping that she's going to turn around. If you're going to file, file because it will make you happy. Period.
There were 2 modes of thought at different times. One time was to see if it would change things. The other time was to finally be done and move on and give up. They didn't both occur at the same time.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
