so later today he sends another msg:

when can i see my kid?

to me it doesn't sound like he has any intention of respecting me or the family or providing any support. can you be that freaking dumb to not get it. or am i going to have to spell it out point by point of what re spect is going to look like for me and support????


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline