Did the OM care that she was married? Hmmmm.... nope. He just did what he wanted to because he is enjoying his life. Maybe you should emulate him more, apparently he has what it takes to attract your wife to him.
I'm pretty sure he's not asking for permission, he's not reacting to what she does, he's just doing his own thing, and having fun with his life... can you see that?
Are you able to do this?
I'm really not so sure anymore.
15 pages into your thread and you still haven't made the headway you should have made. You question your actions, you aren't confident, you aren't decisive, you are worried about what she does (when you ask her questions if she's going to do something, you are worried about what she does, even on a small level it shows), you are insecure, you are jealous, now tell me of all of these traits which one screams SEXY to your wife or any woman?
