My W called twice afterwards, I didn't answer, but she left a voice message saying "H, we were done. We were sleeping in separate beds. I was looking for another place to live. We were done. If you want to call it an A, that's up to you, but if you're going to bring it up in mediation when I'm paying for it, let me know and I'll not bother to waste the money. I don't care what the mediator thinks, that's why I didn't defend myself today, but there's no point in bringing it up in mediation."
The whole thing is ridiculous. She's so trying to alleviate her guilt. She doesn't accept that she was in an EA prior to us sleeping in separate beds. Her EA turned sexual literally the day after she decided to sleep in a seperate bed. Plus she herself said several times during the last year that we're NOT done yet. Just two weeks ago she threw a fit when I said I was done.
My impulse is to respond and point all this out, but I assume I shouldn't take the bait? She wants to fight, to put in on me, right?
