Wrong! You were expecting something even if you can't admit it to yourself (see above quote). Just changing a lightbulb for her isn't letting her cake eat. She asked and you said okay. End of story.
IMO I would change the bulb because you said you already said you would. Don't seem like an @$$ and then tell her you changed your mind.
A real man follows through on what he has promised regardless on who it is for.
I think you are right about needing to follow through with the lightbulbs. I don't want to come across as an @ss since I already said I would do it.
I understand what you are saying about expecting something. But I wasn't expecting anything out of her for doing it. Maybe by me saying it is letting her have her cake and eat it to you are thinking that I was expecting something. I am not sure what I would be expecting by me simply changing her light bulbs for her. A romp in the hay would be nice, but I know it ain't gonna happen, so I don't expect it. And I definitely don't dare ask for it.
Kevin
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Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...