I will only add.. it does get easier as you figure out FOR YOURSELF, what 'new' normal looks & feels like. You've had many many years of thinking something abnormal was normal.. it was not.
Please give it time and be gentle with yourself... you are worth it.
((Bunny)) Peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.