But yes, one goal at a time would work best. And right now that seems to be finishing off the joint accounts. But what is that going to say to W? Does that say to her go ahead and refile now? That is what I am worried about. I know everyone says don't be worried about that and that it will have no bearing on her decision. But it might if she is on the fence about going through with finishing it off.
Kevin
I hardly think that her wanting to reconcile is based on financial reasons. Its going to say to W that you are sick of this, life must move on, and time to separate things. IMO, if anything it will possibly make her rethink things way more than just being super passive. But remember, she isn't going to be thrilled and may stomp her feet like a child.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
